Content!
Women, it is very important to have content. You are more than a body, you are also a brain. A guy can fall in love with the way you look, he can marry the person you can become, but it’s your content that keeps that man around. Content meaning substance, be able to keep a conversation going, even if you suck at starting one. It’s lonely having a beautiful someone next to who that has nothing to say.

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There is more to loving than just love.

All men and woman want what the couple in the picture have. As humans we are naturally passionate people, as well as emotional, selfish, and self-judging, among many other things. Although break-ups and divorces are common they are still misunderstood and alot of times avoidable. To often at the end of a relationship both parties can say that I love him/her more than they did me, while this is can be true, it can also be inaccurate. (Here’s the break down). MOST of the time women tend to be the more loving, the more emotional, and the more giving in the relationship, but with all of that love comes flaws. Alot of women feel like they give it their all, and they try their best but at the same time refuses to change. With any long term relationship comes change, and society teaches you now that is a man wants you to change for him, then you doesn’t respect who you are and blah blah blah. WRONG. Woman I am telling you now, if you have been with a man, and you two are in love the you have his heart. End of story. When he ask you to change or to do a few things different that is him asking you to grow with him, explore with him, and learn with him. Some guys want to marry a porn star, some might want to marry a business owner, or a house wife, but most guys want to marry all of them wrapped into one person. Ladies, you are very special creatures in the since that you endure, you adapt, and your stronger than the majority of men, but some of your biggest flaws come with change, and how you feel like the love you originally brought to the table should be good enough. Its a way of life that views have been tainted by society trying to create the “Strong independent woman” but your really just being set up for a life filled with “almost prefect stories.” Just like any longterm relationship you develop in life, the way you love changes, but grows, no matter if its your relationship with you kids, your pets, are your parents, so why should your husband/wife be any different? 

Anonymous asked:

My wife is afraid to release her inner slut and thinks she will be put down for it. What to do?

Sadly this is true when it comes to alot of women. They want to be able to open up a little more, explore a little farther, and go the extra mile with their loved one but don’t because of the fear of facing scrutiny. As a husband it starts with you understanding that it’s hard for her because most of the judgment she will be receiving is from the people she consider friends, and sometimes family. Woman buy make-up, get their hair done, groom their nails and etc because deep down inside they really do care about how they are perceived by others. With that being said my advice to you and to her is to slowly work on the mental part of releasing your inner-slut, that starts with her learning to understand that no matter what people may think of her, it should not out weigh what you think of her. At the end of the day those strangers that judged her are gone, at the end of the month those friends have stopped talking, but most importantly at the end of the year she has brought you and her closer than before. This of course is easier said than done, and will take time to get use to but it is the best way. If she does not develop the mental ability to block out the opinions of outsiders she will never be able to full embrace her full potential, and that goes well beyond just releasing your inner-slut. People judge you on job interviews, when trying to get a pay raise, or buying a car or house. Blocking out the negatives, while searching and accepting the positives is a very hard thing to do in such a negative world, but I wish you two the most of luck, and if you ever need more advice I am here, are you can write me on facebook at IdeaWife

(Change) No time better than now.

Fear of change is not always about the fear in changing, but more so the fear in giving in to what someone else wants you to be. 

Why love with limits, because your only limiting your love. Life is shorter than we think, and every day is not promised, why hold back on what your willing to do for the one you claim to love. 

There is no change to big, no conversation to small, no fantasy to awkward, or no time better than now. 

from: www.facebook.com/IdealWife

Fear of change is not always about the fear in changing, but more so the fear in giving in to what someone else wants you to be.

Why love with limits, because your only limiting your love. Life is shorter than we think, and every day is not promised, why hold back on what your willing to do for the one you claim to love.

There is no change to big, no conversation to small, no fantasy to awkward, or no time better than now.

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