All men and woman want what the couple in the picture have. As humans we are naturally passionate people, as well as emotional, selfish, and self-judging, among many other things. Although break-ups and divorces are common they are still misunderstood and alot of times avoidable. To often at the end of a relationship both parties can say that I love him/her more than they did me, while this is can be true, it can also be inaccurate. (Here’s the break down). MOST of the time women tend to be the more loving, the more emotional, and the more giving in the relationship, but with all of that love comes flaws. Alot of women feel like they give it their all, and they try their best but at the same time refuses to change. With any long term relationship comes change, and society teaches you now that is a man wants you to change for him, then you doesn’t respect who you are and blah blah blah. WRONG. Woman I am telling you now, if you have been with a man, and you two are in love the you have his heart. End of story. When he ask you to change or to do a few things different that is him asking you to grow with him, explore with him, and learn with him. Some guys want to marry a porn star, some might want to marry a business owner, or a house wife, but most guys want to marry all of them wrapped into one person. Ladies, you are very special creatures in the since that you endure, you adapt, and your stronger than the majority of men, but some of your biggest flaws come with change, and how you feel like the love you originally brought to the table should be good enough. Its a way of life that views have been tainted by society trying to create the “Strong independent woman” but your really just being set up for a life filled with “almost prefect stories.” Just like any longterm relationship you develop in life, the way you love changes, but grows, no matter if its your relationship with you kids, your pets, are your parents, so why should your husband/wife be any different?